How To Cuckold Your Husband: 9 Ways For Hotwife Newbies

Interested in learning how to cuckold your husband?

Well, you've come to the right place cause in this blog post I'll go over how to slowly turn your husband into a loyal cuck.

Now, I said slowly because cuckolding is probably a new experience for both of you. As a result, you want to go slow to test the waters.

Just jumping into the deep end of cuckolding is a difficult thing for both partners because you need to explore what you like and what you don't like.

As a result, this blog post will cover simple, beginner hotwife tasks that you can try to slowly turn your husband into your cuckold!

This cuckolding for beginners blog post will cover:

  • How to cuckold your husband or boyfriend
  • How to start cuckolding and begin the cuckold progression
  • The steps you need to take to turn his cuckold fantasy into reality
  • How to be a hotwife

Also, like I have said many times before, the key to a successful FLR and cuckold relationship is COMMUNICATION!

After you try anything from this list (or anything related to cuckolding at all), talk about the experience with your partner.

Did you like it? What didn't you like? Is it something you want to try again?

Talk about it with your partner and you'll ensure a great and happy and long cuckold relationship :)

9 Ways To Cuckold Your Husband For Beginners

1. Slowly turn him into your bitch!

The best way to turn your husband or boyfriend into an obedient cuckold is to dominate him slowly.

Work your way up by turning him into your bitch first.

For example, make him do the chores around the house.

Boss him around - by telling him to put on your shoes or do your laundry.

Tell him to open his mouth before you spit in it.

Order him to run an errand for you late at night.

Dominating him like this helps get you ready mentally for cuckolding him (and for him as well).

I don't recommend jumping into cuckolding by fucking another man immediately.

It's much more healthy (and fun) to build your way up to it.

Dominate your man slowly - take baby steps until you finally cuckold him like a good boy!

2. Hint that you want to sleep with someone else

Another easy thing to do is to tease your husband/boyfriend about hot guys.

Point them out while you're with him.

For example, you see a hot guy at the coffee shop and say something like "wow he's hot. I wonder if he's single or anything."

Or maybe you're at dinner and see someone checking you out. That's when you say to your cuckold husband:

"Maybe we should invite him to our table. I bet he wants to fuck me."

The point of this is getting your husband/boyfriend used to the idea that other guys want you...and that you could have any guy that you wanted at any time.

...that at the snap of your fingers you could be in bed with a hot guy and he can do nothing but watch everything unfold.

And this strategy is also great for foreplay too.

3. Watch cuckold porn and read erotica together

Another easy way begin cuckold progression in your marriage/relationship is watching porn (or reading erotica) together.

I think this is great because not only are you exploring the fetish deeper together, but you can really talk about the experience too.

So break out the TV and turn on the porn!

Pick out some cuckold porn that you both like. This is also a great opportunity to masturbate each other.

This is way better than Netflix and Chill, right? :)

After you spend a few hours watching this together, talk about the experience.

Talk about what you really liked and what really got you off. Talk about what you want to do in the future - taking baby steps, obviously.

In addition, you can read erotica as well. For example, you can have your cuckold husband eat your pussy while you read the book.

Or you can do the opposite: give him head while he reads the book out loud to you.

The great thing about erotica is you can also play audiobooks too!

This is a great approach to slowly bring yourself deeper and deeper into the world of cuckolding!

4. Start flirting with other men

Another easy thing you can do to start cuckolding your husband or boyfriend is to flirt with other guys.

And this can take form in a number of ways.

For example, the most direct approach is flirting with guys in front of him! Not only is this very humiliating for him, but it is also very fun!

And if you want to take things up a notch, you can also flirt with his friends. Talk about hot stuff, right?

Another thing to do is text with guys you know have interest in you. And when I say text, I really do mean more like "sexting".

Also, share these texts with your husband too. Let him know there are dozens and dozens of hot guys interested in you this very moment!

You can also start flirting with guys on Tinder too. Download the app and then start swiping right in front of your cuckold husband.

Show him which guys have matched with you!

In fact, you can have him eat your pussy while you do this!

How To Cuckold Your Husband 9 Ways For Hotwife Newbies

5. Go out with the girls

Another way to slowly cuckold your husband is to simply go out with your girlfriends - especially the ones who are still single.

This is fun because it allows you to go out and flirt with guys together.

Some hotwives like to bring their wedding rings with them as they think it will make guys hit on them more! But I prefer to leave it at home with your husband/bf so he knows exactly what you have planned!

Anyways, while you are out with the girl, sext with your husband/boyfriend - give him the play by play of what is going on!

Are guys hitting on you? Did you make out with someone? Did someone buy you a drink?

Text your husband and let him know!

Flirting with guys with your girls like you are in college is really fun and a great stepping stone to cuckold your husband.

6. Go out on a date

One of the major steps in progressing your cuckold relationship is to go out on a date with another man.

Now, you don't have to do anything crazy here like fuck or anything, but going out for drinks or flirting around is a ton of fun.

Remember, it's better to go slow and take baby steps before jumping full in.

Going on a simple (even harmless) date without sex in mind is good.

This is because the act prepares both partners emotionally for what may eventually happen.

So go out with the guy you want to fuck while your husband stays home. Or if it would make you feel more comfortable, have him tag along on the date - being your sober driver!

7. Send naughty messages to him...

Part of a good cuckold relationship (or any relationship, really), is sexting.

I find that most healthy couples sext A LOT!

So, throughout the day text your partner some naughty things. Let him know how much you want to cuckold him.

For example, here are some sample texts to send him:

"Just saw the hottest guy at Starbucks. Maybe I should have asked for his number."

"My trainer was staring at my ass all day at the gym. I bet you would love if he fucked me right then and there!"

"I'm so horny right now. Wonder which guy I should pick to cuckold you with."

"Just saw your friend Jason at the store. I couldn't keep my hands off him."

And you shouldn't limit yourself to just texts too! Send him some naughty pictures and videos too.

After all, you should keep your cuck busy thinking about you all day long! In fact, you can even send him to do some cuckold tasks/errands like buying condoms!

8. Kiss another man

One of the best ways to cuckold your husband/boyfriend is to kiss another man.

And how far you go with this is up to you completely!

For example, if you are totally new with cuckolding, take things slow and kiss another man on the cheek.

This is actually pretty common in Europe so it's not something totally hardcore.

So next time you visit friends (particularly your cuck's friends), kiss them on the cheek.

Or if you want to go a little step further, kiss on the lips - no French kissing - just a little peck.

Of course if you are more experienced into cuckolding, make out with someone (i.e. French kissing) in front of your husband.

This could be at the bar or a Tinder date or anything in between.

Kissing in front of your husband is a great way to becoming a hotwife!

So pucker up those lips and get started!

9. Tell him what you did...

Another way to cuckold your husband is to tell him what you did.

Obviously, your husband isn't always going to be around when guys hit on you or when you decide to flirt with other guys.

However, you can still tell him about it!

Text him or leave him a sexy voicemail about what just happened.

For example, if your gym trainer or co-worker just flirted with you, let your husband know what happened.

Tell him how excited and how wet you were from that.

Maybe you copped a feel and touched a friend's massive cock. Let your cuckold know about that too!

And even if something didn't happen, you can tell him about your daydream.

For example, you can say something like "Just saw the hottest guy in the subway. I was thinking about sucking his dick in front of everyone. You would like that, wouldn't you?"

How To Cuckold Your Husband - Final Thoughts

In my opinion, cuckolding your husband isn't something you just jump into right away.

The healthy way is to slowly ease into this lifestyle so you can be totally sure it is something you both enjoy.

This list is by no means comprehensive, but was written to be a "starter guide" for budding hotwives. Adapt and try these out as you see fit in your relationship!

Hope this post on how to cuckold your husband was useful! Let me know if you think I missed anything on this list so I can add to it!

P.S. for more sexy hotwife ideas, be sure to check out this blog post!

P.P.S. The cuckold community is all about sharing. So if you have some tips or stories, be sure to share them below.

Share your stories on "how I cuckolded my husband" or "why I cuckolded my husband" so everyone can gain from your experience!


  • Some great ideas.

  • To make a man a willing cuckold is to dominate him in the ultimate way. Not all men will submit but one of the best ways to dominate a man is to make him orgasm by prostrate massage. This means shoving your finger up his ass and gently stoking his prostrate until he cums, chances are he will not even have an erection but it will feel incredible. Eventually increase the number of fingers and make him beg for release. When you are ready introduce him to a vibrator and then start talking about cock while he spills his load. When a woman does this it changes how she sees men and it changes how the man sees himself

  • i’m a cuckold to my wife and Her boyfriend. We talked about it a lot at the beginning and realized that we both wanted this type of relationship. i actually helped Her find a new boyfriend and we actually have a good rapport.

  • Follow up: Since May when I last left a comment on my wife’s interest in flirting with men on her travels, we have reached a new level of our entering this lifestyle. When I picked her up from the airport last weekend (flight attendant), she introduced me to a pilot friend of hers from another airline (John) who she had known for a while. However, I did notice that she had her arm around his waist as she introduced me, and and when we were leaving , she leaned up against him and kissed him on his cheek, and whispered something in his ear. As we walked away, she mentioned to me that she told him, “I was a very open minded husband and that she loved me for that.” When my wife and I got into the car, she told me the words I had only dreamed of hearing some day—she said “Remember when you told me some months ago that I had your approval if I ever wanted to be more intimate with other men on my layovers? Well, John and I ran into each other at the airport in Miami two days ago, and went to dinner together. I wanted to tell you that after dinner, we ended up in his hotel room where we just had a drink and talked for a while, but eventually that led to more things, and we slept together that night—we had sex.” She put her petite hand onto mine in the car and continued, “I hope you are still ok with this arrangement, right? I felt that you seemed to like the idea if I did this also.” I can still see her eyes looking so humble and yet somehow sensually more alive than before as she talked to me in the car — a little nervous but yet excited to tell me that she went through with my encouragement for her to cuckold me. This has transformed our relationship into a new realm and it is somehow exciting and yet confusing at times since we had never actually really gone through with it before…

  • I must admit that after reading this today, I realized that my beautiful, athletic wife had slowly followed some of these same steps with me over many years in our marriage without either of us really knowing exactly what we were doing or why. She naturally flirted with men and teased me about how some executive men tried to hook up with her when she was on layovers with her flight attendant career. Those comments made me concerned initially but then I knew it also seemed to turn me on for some reason to listen to her explain how men flirted with her. Since she travels often, I naturally have been doing the house chores and taken her clothes to the dry cleaner, etc. so that came naturally to me in supporting her career.

    My 34 yr old assertive/sensual wife and her flirtatious behaviors with men became stronger over the years anyhow and then eventually we “had the talk” one evening on the way back from the airport which led to me ultimately agreeing to her “safely” exploring more intimate contact with selected men she felt drawn to on her layovers, and I felt turned on just thinking about it.

    Somehow, my initial jealousies and concerns transformed into my support for her fulfilling her needs on trips but I don’t believe she has gone through with it yet.


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