How To Humiliate A Cuck: 9 Cuckold Humiliation Ideas

Are you struggling to come up with some cuckold humiliation ideas to try on your husband/boyfriend?

Well, you've come to the right place!

Consensual erotic humiliation is a great activity to engage in with your cuckold marriage.

Not only is a great for teasing and foreplay, but it's also a great way to take your cuck down a notch when you want to :)

Plus, if you humiliate him the right way, you'll get him super hard and frustrated in the cage.

This blog post will cover:

  • How to humiliate a cuckold in the most erotic way possible
  • Fun cuckold humiliation ideas to try on your husband/boyfriend
  • How to push his buttons in all the right ways

Alright, let's talk about how to humiliate him in the best way possible...

1. Humiliate his physical stature

One of the best ways to demean your cuckold husband is to make fun of his physical stature.

For example, if he is overweight, poke fun of him a little bit. This is also a good way to get him motivated to work out.

If he’s not as muscular as your bull, let him know.

Say something like: "Jason is so much stronger than you. He can lift me up and fuck me all night long."

And if he’s short, remind him of that or wear heels that make you taller than him.

Men are usually a little self conscious about some aspect of their physical appearance, so poking a little fun of that is a great way to tease and humiliate him.

2. Cuckold sexual humiliation!

Have you not had sex with your husband lately?

Or maybe you did and it wasn’t any good.

Let him know how unsatisfied you are with him from vaginal sex to his pussy eating skills.

Say things like: "you only made me cum twice with your tongue last night so I'm going to lock you in chastity for another week."

The point is to make him feel (or at least believe) that he wasn't able to satisfy you.

Also, mind fuck him a little and let him know that you just might replace him if he doesn’t improve!

Or you can threaten to lock him in chastity for even longer or fuck him with a strapon...

This is definitely one of my favorite cuckold humiliation ideas from this list!

3. Small penis humiliation

Small penis humiliation is always a great way to demean your husband. After all, it is the thing that makes him a “man”.

Start calling his penis silly names like:

  • Pindick
  • Shrimp
  • Dicky

That’ll really get to his head.

Another thing I want you to do is comment on how his dick seems to have shrunk while locked in chastity. That’s a super fun way to mind fuck him.

Also, be sure to compare his little dick to common household items (like a pen or a paperclip).

And of course, keeping his dick locked away in chastity is always a great way to show him his place in your relationship!

4. Compare him with your bull

Another fun way to really demean your husband is to compare him with your bull in terms of sexual adequacy.

Let him know how wet you are for your bull(s) and how dry you are as a desert for him.

And when your bull is fucking you, don’t be afraid to tell your cuck husband just how much better he does it than him!

Really any way you can compare your cuck as inferior to another man is a great way to humiliate him.

This will be a constant reminder of why you have him locked away in chastity!

How To Humiliate and Demean Your Cuckold Husband

5. Make him beg for physical intimacy

Another way to emasculate your husband is to make him beg to have physical intimacy with you.

This could include regular things like hugging, snuggling in bed, holding your hand, kissing, eating your pussy, etc.

Making him ask permission to have physical intimacy enforces the idea that he is beneath you and that it is a privilege to be physically intimate with you.

And it’s also humiliating that your bulls do not need to ask permission to do any of those things with you!

6. Good old cuckold sissy humiliation...

Another way to emasculate your husband is to make him wear panties all the time.

As I have written about before, panties are the best type of underwear for a slave to wear with his chastity cage.

Not only is it very humiliating, but it’s also very practical, as the tight panties will keep the cage from bouncing around – which is very important if you lead an active lifestyle like playing sports or running or anything of the sort.

In addition, make him be completely naked at all times (except his cage and the panties) while at home.

P.S. if you're interested in learning more about turning your partner into a good sissy, check out this blog post!

7. Emasculate him in public

Another way to demean and humiliate your husband is a little public humiliation.

What do I mean by this?

I don’t mean “outing” him in front of people, but I mean embarrassing him a little.

For example, you can say things like “I can’t believe you’re eating that. You’re supposed to be losing weight.”

Or "stop staring at other women like that. I thought we talked about this."

The point is to make people look at your husband and say “yep, he’s definitely whipped”

8. Control his orgasms

Another great way to demean your husband is to control his orgasms.

And I’m not just talking about chastity here. I’m talking about controlling when he jerks, how he jerks, how he cums, when he cums, etc.

Controlling all aspects of his manhood so he knows that you own him…that you own that cock.

This not only ensures that all of your commands are obeyed, but it keeps him on his toes and horny to please you in every single way!

9. Make him ask permission for normal things

Finally, a great way to really humiliate your husband is to have him ask permission to do normal things.

For example, the best way to do this is to make him ask permission to use the bathroom.

It doesn’t matter how bad he needs to go pee, if you say no, he must hold it in!

You can do the same thing to his eating schedule too. For example, he is not allowed to eat breakfast, lunch, etc. without getting your explicit permission.

If he is at work, he must text you and ask permission!

Cuckold Humiliation Ideas For Your FLR - Final Thoughts

Overall, if you want to humiliate and demean your cuckold husband it isn't very hard.

All you need to do is follow the tips on this list!

Humiliation is a great fetish to explore his submissive side and really tease and torment him (especially if he is locked in chastity).

Hope you have fun with this cuckold humiliation guide :)


  • I was embarrassed and humiliated at first but once I realized that I was always a man that was a tiny cuck and that I had to accept that my wife deserved better than I was able to give her and that she deserved real men my life has never been better and seeing how much pleasure and happiness that my wife has is worth the humiliation that I have being caged makes me feel amazing and as much as I hate wearing my cage I truly love it because it is so satisfying to see how much my wife loves it and she is so beautiful and so amazing I’m so happy seeing her getting the sexual satisfaction that she deserves

  • My wife & I had sold our house & we were temporarily living at her mother’s. My mother in law came home unexpectedly one lunchtime when I was WFH & she caught me dressed up girly. She got her phone out & recorded. From that day on she would be home at lunch once a week to spank me dressed in various outfits.

  • I am fully dressed at home full time. I am required to ask permission to be milked and fed my own semen. My wife used a Hitachi Wand and a large spoon clamped to the edge of the kitchen table. After she gives me permission to ejaculate I pull my panties down to my knees and hold my dress up. Then she verbally reminds me that I had better not miss the spoon and she proceeds to hold the Hitachi Wand under my penis head and turns it on high. She has me trained to squirt in about 20-30 seconds. She holds her fingers tightly at the base of my penis until I say “please feed me my semen”. She takes the Hitachi Wand away and hold my penis head directly over the spoon and slowly releases her fingers. I fill the spoon every time. Then she squeezes out the last drops and I kneel. After she unclamps the spoon she just says “enjoy this Sissy” and the spoon goes in my mouth. I get every drop. She tells me “do not swallow yet”. She likes me to enjoy the taste for a minute then she says “swallow” and I do.

    Sissy Leighanne
  • Love being a sissy cuck in panties and bra. Wife put me panties about 5 years ago and later bra and silky nighties every night. We shop together like 2 girls and I love being in the woman’s area carrying panties and looking at dresses , skorts and other feminine clothes> She loves having women look at us and I pay for everything. Her Bull loves my ass and he uses my love hole when wife is away. Love my life so much.

  • I know that cuckolding can very from couple to couple but, I wouldn’t push the demeaning and humilation too hard. A hotwife should know her limits in that area. Cuckolding and being in a hotwife lifestyle is living life on the edge. Just make sure you don’t push it too far or you could fall off the edge.

    Joe Sommer

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