9 Hot & Humiliating Femdom Ideas For Your Submissive

Looking for some fun, humiliating femdom ideas to try on your submissive?

No matter if he's your husband, boyfriend, or slave, these humiliation ideas are super fun.

That's the great thing about transitioning to a female led relationship - the fun never ends because you can create so many different "femdom scenarios."

One of the things a lot of FLR couples love is erotic humiliation. There's just something insanely sexy about humiliating your partner (in an erotic manner) and totally dominating someone.

Gets panties really wet if you know what I mean!

Anyways, try some of these fun femdom games this weekend - you won't regret it!

1. Kiss or clean your feet in public

One hot way to erotically humiliate your partner is to make him worship your feet in public.

This is a fun little scenario especially if your partner has a foot fetish.

Now, if he's really shy about this, you can do it in a more secluded place like at not so busy spot at the beach or under a tree at the park or in a semi-abandoned parking lot.

Find somewhere to sit and make him take off your sneakers. Then, order him to smell your socks in front of anyone who might pass by!

The idea that you could be "caught" at any moment is a real thrill. In fact, it'll get the adrenaline pumping like crazy!

After that worshiping your socks, order him to take them off. While this is going on, you can tease him with your other foot and get him really nice and hard.

This is a great tease if he's locked safely away in chastity!

After that, order him to kiss your toes and lick your soles. And if you're daring enough, order him to suck on your toes to get you nice and wet!

If you really want to humiliate him, make him do this in a VERY public place like at a restaurant or in the middle of the mall.

2. Make fun of his size!

One really fun femdom humiliation idea is to make fun of his penis.

After all, many men who have a small penis actually love to be humiliated about their size! Heck, even some average (or above average) men love to be told that they are inadequate in that department.

It's all about the humiliation for them.

There are a lot of things you can do to humiliate his penis size, but I want to go over two "public" ways to do it.

One way is to post a picture of his little pecker on a NSFW (not safe for work) Reddit thread (or maybe even on Tumblr, but Reddit is the best way) - ideally in a femdom or cuckolding subreddit.

Ask people what they think of his small penis and show him all of the responses!

I bet he'll be hard as a rock! Well, as hard as you can be in chastity.

Another thing you can do is post is picture on Twitter and ask people what they think!

Or you can play a RT (retweet) chastity game.

For example, every person that retweets the message will result in him getting 2 extra days in chastity and everyone who likes the post will result in 1 extra day in chastity.

This is femdom humiliation at its finest! Think of it as "crowdsourcing femdom" haha!

3. Drink your piss

What could be more humiliating than drinking your piss?

Nothing!

Now, before I discuss this idea, just know that toilet play isn't for everyone.

So if it's not for you, just skip pass this one. No hard feelings, right?

Some couples really love water sports so I decided to include it on the list.

And I'm a firm believer in trying everything at least once (to see if you like it) because you never know!

Anyways, one way to REALLY humiliate your slave is to make him consume your PISS.

That's right, piss in a doggie bowl and place it right in front of him.

Order him to lap it all up and drink it all!

Or another thing you can do is make him go on a 5 mile run without drinking anything.

When he is done, he will be allowed to drink your piss to quench his thirst!

Talk about cruel, erotic humiliation, right? :)

4. Spit on him

When I was growing up, my dad always told me to NEVER spit on anyone unless you're ready to throw hands.

But in this context it is a little different.

After all, spitting can be a very erotic form of humiliation in your sex life.

That's why spitting on your partner is so much fun!

And I'm not talking about spitting in your partner's mouth during sex (although I do recommend that)!

Nope, I'm talking about spitting on his face (ideally somewhere in public) and not letting him wipe it off.

For example, while you're shopping for groceries, spit on his face and have him rub it all around.

Or maybe if you're really into erotic humiliation, spit on his face (or his shirt) before you send him off to work!

Spitting is a really great form of humiliation, especially when done in public.

So I would recommend you try it!

If you're not interested in spitting on your partner in public, then doing it in the privacy of your own home is another option.

For example, you can spit on his face and use your feet to rub it all around.

Another thing you can do is spit on your feet and have him lick it up like a dog.

The possibilities are endless when you mix in spit into your sex life!

5. Wear his key in plain sight

This is one of my favorite femdom wife ideas because it's so simple!

Another great way to humiliate your slave is to wear his chastity key in plain sight.

The best places I would consider wearing the key include around your:

  • Ankle
  • Neck
  • Wrist
  • Belly button ring

Not only does this give him a constant reminder that he is locked in chastity for you, but it can also be a humiliating experience!

Just imagine you are out at a restaurant and someone sees the key on your neck and asks about it.

That'll turn your slave's face red as you explain exactly what it's for!

Or you can be a little coy about it and simply say that is is for something "important."

Either way, wear his key in plain sight. Trust me, it's more fun than it sounds!

9 Hot Humiliating Femdom Ideas For Your Submissive

6. Make him eat you...anywhere!

Public sex is so exciting.

It's really the taboo nature of it that makes is so interesting and so kinky!

...the idea that you could get caught at any moment. My face blushes up every time I think about it!

It really gets the adrenaline pumping and you get a high that isn't very easily replicable.

So next time you want to humiliate your husband, order him to eat you out in public somewhere.

Here are a few places you can make him do this:

  • In the parking lot of the mall
  • At the movie theater once the lights go dark and the movie begins
  • In the bathroom of a restaurant or bar
  • In the changing room of a department store!

This will really make things interesting when you go out!

7. Write an essay

Another fun way to humiliate your slave is to tease him about not being able to cum.

After all, you control him right?

Next time he asks to cum make him beg for it!

Ask him what he will do just to cum.

Will he buy you a new pair of shoes? Will be take you on a vacation? What will it be?

Toy with him like that for a bit. After all, it's fun to mind fuck him.

And then tell him that if he wants to be unlocked and cum, he will need to write a 1,000 word essay explaining why he deserves to cum.

Talk about a humiliating experience, right? I bet he'll struggle to get even 500 words on paper! hahaha

Anyways, once he is done with that little task, have him kneel down and read the essay out loud to you while you play with his cock.

Then, once he is finished, deny him and make him eat you out!

In fact, this is such a cruel idea, it may as well be a femdom punishment haha!

8. Chastity + SPH

Another thing you can do to really humiliate your husband is tease him about his chastity cage.

And throw in a little small penis humiliation (SPH) for safe measure!

For example, stroke his cock after you spit on his cage. When you see him straining against the cage, start talking dirty to him.

Say things like:

"Don't you wish you could get out of the cage and fuck me?"

"Your cuck is so small that's why I need to lock it up. You're not going to be getting pussy anymore."

"If only you weren't locked up I would let you fuck me."

"Your little dick is so cute in there! It looks all squished up!"

"Maybe if you shrink another inch we can put you into a smaller cage."

Combining erotic small penis humiliation along with chastity is a great way to spice things up in the bedroom!

9. Change your mind...a lot!

Another way to really humiliate your slave is to control his orgasms.

Power exchange is one of the cornerstones of female domination!

Really mind fuck him and think you're going to let him cum and then pull the rug from under him!

It's really funny to lead him on by saying you'll let him cum tonight.

Then, after a long tease and denial session, change your mind right on the fly!

Say something like:

"I know I said I would let you cum, but I lied."

"I know I said I would let you cum, but I think it would be fun to keep you in the cage for another week."

Doing so keeps him on his toes and is a good reminder that you own him and control this relationship!

Humiliating Femdom Ideas - Final Thoughts

Overall, erotic humiliation in your relationship is a really fun way to keep things fun and exciting.

Hopefully you found these humiliating femdom ideas useful!

If you already tried some of these ideas, let me know in the comments if you enjoyed trying them!

Stay kinky out there :)

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2 comments

  • My Mistress Wife has had me worship and kiss Her feet many times in public. It is so humiliating but I enjoy it so much. I will do anything to please Her. She wears my key constantly around Her neck and when I am wearing my t shirt that says " cuck. She has the key" Mistress loves to show it off. she even once has me kiss Her sandled toes in a grocery line while She explained the key and t shirt to the Woman behind us. They are now Friends

    Sarajane
  • Love this topic and article. I will have cuck hubby write/submit an essay: How I Am Going to Accept, Encourage and Pleasure Ms. Linda’s New Black Bull – both my Bull and me will read and grade; I already have spanked hubby in front of my Black Bull. Besides hubby then being sent to bed early with his face as red as his ass, my Bull feels so much more comfortable being here with hubby home. So, next step will be for hubby to write an essay on Why Ms. Linda’s Black Bull Is Now Allowed to Spank; one idea I love is to give the key to my Black Bull and make hubby call or visit our Black Bull to ask permission to masturbate. Some of the conversations between Bull and hubby are priceless.

    Linda

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