10 Femdom Game Ideas To Control His Orgasms

Looking for some fun femdom games to control his orgasms in your FLR?

Well, you've come to the right place!

One of the great things about being in a FLR is that there are so many fetishes and things to explore in your new sex life.

It can be a little overwhelming, but that's the beauty of it in my opinion!

But don't worry, after going through this femdom games list, you'll have a fresh perspective on just how to control him...

10 Femdom Game Ideas For Your FLR

This blog post will cover:

• Various femdom games and scenarios to try with your partner
• Tease & denial, ruined orgasms, and female worship
• Orgasm games to control his release

1. Fuck and see who cums first!

My first femdom game idea is a lot of fun!

Here's what you are going to do...

Have your husband lie down on the bed. Then you will straddle him and sit on his cock.

You will take turns fucking (i.e. thrusting) into each other.

Each person will alternate between thrusting 10 times.

The first person who cums loses!

If he loses, he will be punished. Let's say if he cum first, he will be locked in chastity for 2 whole weeks! How's that for a punishment?

I find that having a cruel punishment like this makes the game MUCH more fun because he'll try his hardest not to cum!

Let's say he wins...what should be his reward? Well, his reward is eating your pussy!

Sound fun, right? So who wants to play!

2. Edge him over and over again

Tie your slave onto the bed so he can't move at all.

Then, I want you to edge him 5 times. You can edge him in a number of ways depending on your mood.

But I find that it's fun to mix it up a bit as a little challenge.

What do I mean by this? Well, I mean edge him 5 different ways.

For example, for the first edge, use your mouth.

For the second edge, use your feet

And for the third edge, use your hands

For the fourth edge, use your ass

And for the fifth and final edge, use your pussy!

Every time he is about to cum he must say "please Mistress, stop! I'm going to cum!"

That's when you stop and then slap his cock 5 times. Then wait 30 to 60 seconds before moving on to the second edge.

Also, time how long it takes him to get to 5 edges.

If he is edged 5 times in under 30 minutes, lock him up in chastity for another 2 weeks.

If he is able to take the 5 edges for at least 60 minutes (such a cruel tease!), finally allow him to cum - and by cum, I mean have a ruined orgasm, followed by post orgasm torture!

Orgasm control games like this are some of my favorite because by the time you are done, he'll be a mess!

3. How many thrusts does it take?

Here's a really fun femdom orgasm game to play with your cuckold husband.

Do you remember that Tootsie lollipop commercial when they asked you how many licks does it take to get to the center of a lollipop?

Well, you are going to play a similar game! Instead, you're going to see how many thrusts it takes for your cuckold husband to cum!

If you don't want him to fuck your pussy, you can make him fuck a fake pussy instead!

Make him count each and every thrust to see how many pumps it takes for him to cum (likely not a lot haha).

And based on how many thrusts it takes him to cum he will receive a punishment.

For example, it it takes less than 10 thrusts, you will lock him in chastity for a month.

It it takes between 11 and 30 thrusts, you will slap his balls 10 times each.

And so on and so forth. This makes it a fun game!

Oh and be sure to make him clean up all of his cuck jizz too. He needs to recycle it all!

Also...I find that it is much more fun to play this game after a LONG chastity lockup (at least 2 - 3 weeks). This makes his cock extra sensitive so he's likely to bust a load faster haha.

4. Can he make you squirt?

Most men have never made a woman squirt in their lives (let alone cuckolds). So this one is a really fun idea in my opinion.

Order your slave to eat your pussy all night long. His ultimate goal is to make you squirt all over.

If he is unable to do this, then he needs more pussy eating and fingering training!

If he is unable to accomplish this goal, keep him locked up in chastity for another three weeks.

That will REALLY motivate him to up his pussy eating game like no tomorrow!

And it's kind of fun to have him eat you out and have your juices all over his face knowing he is locked in chastity and can't do anything.

Talk about a cruel time, right? :)

5. Cum in the cage - the "Sissygasm"!

One of the funniest femdom games for your chastity slave is make him cum in the cage.

As I have written about before, cumming in a cage (especially a steel chastity cage) is such a frustrating experience!

It is an orgasm, BUT it's not really at the same time. You get a release, but you're even hornier than when you had blue balls!

It's the ultimate mind fuck.

Now there are a lot of ways to make your slave cum in the chastity cage. I'd recommend checking out this blog post for specific ideas.

But I'll talk about a few high level ideas here real quick.

The first is using a wand massager to make him cum. Putting the vibrating wand head against the cage will cause it to vibrate a lot!

You can also position the wand so it's vibrating against his balls - which will make things even more intense!

Keep up this stimulation and he'll have an intense "sissygasm" in no time - especially if he has been locked in chastity for a while!

Another option is to give him a prostate orgasm. This involves using a prostate massager on him (I'd recommend something like the Cuck Heaven)!

You can also stimulate his balls at the same time for double the sensation.

Once he cums in chastity you'll never have to let him out to release him again, right? haha :)

6. The anal orgasm

Anal orgasms for chastity cucks are the best because it's such an untraditional way to cum.

If your husband/boyfriend hasn't experienced an anal orgasm before, he definitely needs to!

Ideally, you would use a strapon, but using a vibrating dildo will also work.

So here's what you're going to do...

Put your husband/boyfriend on his back with his knees spread wide. Basically you're going to replicate missionary position with the woman on top instead.

You're going to take the dildo or the strapon and penetrate his sissyhole (with plenty of lube of course).

Then with your free hand, take his locked up balls and squeeze them a little.

At this point, he should be VERY hard and the skin should be oozing out of the chastity cage. Take advantage of this opportunity to rub the skin and really tease him.

Meanwhile, you'll still be using the dildo/strapon to fuck his sissyhole and bring him to a frustrating anal orgasm in chastity!

If you want to make things even more frustrating for your slave, you can also give him a small vibrator and use it on his cage himself for double the stimulation!

7. Use his mouth to cum!

Here's one of my favorite femdom games because it is so humiliating!

So here's what I want you to do...

Put a dildo into your husband/boyfriend's mouth (it doesn't have to be a vibrating one, but it's better if it is).

When, I want you to order him to please you with it and make you cum with the dildo in his mouth!

I like this idea because not only is he pleasing you, but he's sort of sucking cock in a way!

And be sure to talk really dirty to him while he's doing this too. Say things like:

"How do you feel having that cock in my mouth while fucking my pussy?"

"You'll do anything to get me off, won't you?"

"Make me cum hard cause you're going to be sucking my juices off that dildo!"

Order him to keep going until you cum.

You'll have a good laugh because the motion of him bobbing his head back and forth with the dildo in his mouth is really quite the sight!

And once you cum hard on the dildo you're going to make him open his mouth and clean it up.

After all, all good cucks clean up after their wives!

If you want to take things EVEN further, after he cleans up the dildo, put some lube on it and fuck his ass with it!

Fuck his sissy hole until he cums. Then make him eat that too.

Talk about a fun night, right? :)

8. A painful fuck...

This is another fun femdom idea to try!

I love this idea because it involves BOTH pain and pleasure!

So here's what you're going to do. You are going to slip your husband some viagra so he stays hard!

Next, you are going to whisper this into his ear with a sultry voice like:

"I'm going to fuck you so hard until I cum multiple times"

"Are you excited to finally be able to fuck me again"

"I'm going to fuck you up so hard tonight"

Then, you are going to put a condom onto his dick. But there's a catch!

You will put a little dab of icy hot into the condom so he feels the burn while you are using his cock for your own pleasure!

You'll be getting orgasms and he'll be feeling pain! The viagra is important here to keep him nice and hard even though he's feeling the burn from the icy hot.

Is this a cruel game?

Yes

But is it fun?

Yes!

So give it a try!

I have a feeling you're going to like it :)

9. Is it burning?

There's just something about pegging a man that is so much fun!

So here's what you are going to do...

Put on your strapon and inform your cuckold husband that you are going to peg him with it

Make him suck on it too before you do it.

But here's the thing...you are going to fuck him with a strapon, but with a twist!

After all, your sub should always know that things are not always what they seem when it comes to you!

Instead of just using lube you are going to use lube AND icy hot!

Once you get a little dab (and I emphasize the little part - less than the size of your pinky nail) on the strapon, tease his sissy clit a little before you go deep in there!

Ram that icy hot tip into his asshole and watch him scream in pain as it starts to burn a little!

This takes pegging to the next level!

Do this while grabbing his cock and jerking him off until he cums. Sounds pretty cruel, right?

10. How far can you shoot it?

This is another orgasm control game to play with your slave.

Order him onto his knees and unlock him from chastity. Tease him a little by playing with his cock with your feet and spitting on him.

Then, order him to jerk on your command like a good boy.

Halfway through this, inform him that you allow him to cum. But draw a line on the ground - well maybe not draw a line in your own home, but put a ruler or some kind of marker on the floor.

Place it a few feet away.

Inform your slave that he must shoot his load beyond that marker otherwise he will be locked straight back into chastity once he blows his load!

Watch as he tries to point his cock in the "optimal" angle to clear the hurdle. Trust me, it is the funniest thing in the world!

Want More Femdom Ideas To Control His Orgasms?

If you want more ideas like this to control your cuckold's orgasms, check out the Femdom Games Book.

Think of it as the Karma Sutra for your FLR.

You'll find crazy ideas like this to tease, deny, torment, and absolutely control your husband/boyfriend :)

Femdom Orgasm Game Ideas - Final Thoughts

Overall, there are a lot of fun games and ideas you can experiment around with in your FLR.

That's what makes this lifestyle so much fun!

Hopefully you had fun reading these fun fedmdom ideas and may even try some of them!

Which one was your favorite?

Let me know in the comments!