Femdom Slave Tasks For Your FLR: 10 Ways To Dominate Your Husband

Looking for some femdom slave tasks for your FLR?

One question I get asked from women all the time is how to dominate your husband/boyfriend.

They are typically new to female led relationships (FLR) and are doing some research about the lifestyle after talking about the subject with their husband.

One of the great things about a FLR is you can structure it however you want - to fit your needs and to fit your desires.

There are a lot of fun games to play when it comes to dominating your husband/boyfriend.

So to help the new FLR couple out, here are some femdom slave tasks you can have your partner do for you!

1. Mark up your territory!

You know how some animals like to mark their territory - i.e. dogs peeing all up their property?

Well, I want you to do the same thing too! You are going to mark your partner's body.

And you can do this a number of ways.

For example, you can have him write your name over his chest (or some other part of his body).

Or the more funny way to go about this is to make him write your name all over his cock so he knows who owns it.

It should say something like "Christine's Cock"

But this may not be possible if he has a small dick...or if you have a long name!

And if you want to take it up a notch, you can have him get a tattoo right above his cock.

What will it say?

Well, it should say something like:

  • "your name's" Bitch
  • "your name's" cuck
  • Slave
  • ....or something of the sort (you get the idea)

This would be for humiliation purposes.

Marking up your slave is fun whether the effects are temporary or more permanent.

2. Clean up your shoes

Here's another fun femdom slave task for your husband/boyfriend. This one works great if you have a lot of shoes in your collection.

Once in a while, bring your shoes out of the closet and line them up for your slave to clean.

And he won't be cleaning them with a piece of cloth or anything of that sort!

Nope...slaves clean their owner's shoes with their tongue :)

So you are going to order him to clean them and make him as good as new for you.

You can chose to stay present and supervise him licking of your shoes.

Or you can decide to go out shopping with his credit card. Or on a date with another man!

But you should always inspect his handiwork when you get back.

After all, you don't tolerate ANY slacking at all! If he didn't do a good job, you will punish him.

If he does a good job, perhaps reward him with the honor of eating your pussy for the night.

3. Work him!

This is a really fun punishment that doesn't really require a lot of work on your part, but is really funny to watch.

Those are the best kind of punishments in my opinion :)

What does this punishment involve?

Well, it's pretty simple!

Do you know the yoga position called goddess pose? Well, Google it if you haven't heard of it.

Well, it is a yoga pose where you have your legs out past shoulder width and bend your knees to near 90 degrees.

Hold that position once your knees are close to 90 degrees. Your slave will start to feel the burning sensation in his legs after holding the position or two!

And to make it even harder, order him to hold his arms out parallel to the ground as well.

That will make sure his arms will burn too!

Make him hold this position for 5 minutes without any rest at all.

Inform him that if he does not do this, you will lock him up in chastity for another week!

Watch has his body literally shakes as he tries to hold the position.

And you can be a total bitch and tease him while he's shaking as well.

For example, you can kiss his neck, suck on his ear, and whisper dirty things into his ear!

...or you can tease his chastity cage and squeeze his balls a little.

You can also slip off your panties and put them over his face so he can smell your scent.

Oh, talk about torture!

4. Wear sissy clothes

If you want to train your husband to be a good sissy slave for you, then you need to make him practice doing sissy things around the house!

For example, he should be wearing panties most of the time.

As I often Tweet about, panties are the ideal underwear to wear while locked in chastity.

This is because the panties are tight and keep the cage firm and in place so it doesn't jiggle around when you walk.

And it's a downright humiliating too!

Aside from that, make him wear pantyhose or a bra or anything else you want to train him to wear around the house.

Once he gets comfortable wearing that stuff around the house, you can make him wear it outside (like to work)!

Also, if you want to make him wear heels, doing it at home is the perfect time!

Make sure he gets plenty of practice wearing high heels!

Turning your husband into a sissy is a great way to dominate him in your marriage.

5. Mundane tasks

Sometimes I like giving long very boring and mundane tasks for slaves.

Why?

Just because!

And it's fun LOL

Give him a boring and tedious task to complete like counting every grain of rice in a bowl. You could also do the same thing with beans.

This is super funny because it is mind numbingly boring and takes such a long time!

But you know what? He'll still be hard as a rock in his chastity cage while doing it because of the way you are controlling him.

It's a total mind fuck, right? :)

Another thing you can do is make him write lines - yep just like how you used to do in school!

Make him write something humiliating like:

  • I am a sissy slut
  • I am Christine's cuckold
  • I'm a small penis loser
  • I love sucking cock
  • I will not leave the toilet seat up again

...you get the point :)

Make him write the same thing over and over again at least 100 times.

And once he is done, you will grade his penmanship. And if it is crappy, you'll make him do it over again!

Femdom Slave Tasks For Your FLR 10 Ways To Dominate Your Husband

6. Morning chores

Another fun thing to have your husband/boyfriend do is the morning chores for you.

After all, you are a Goddess, why should you have to lift a finger when you could have your husband do it?

Every morning have him make coffee with you and get breakfast ready.

He should be prepared to make your favorite breakfast meal.

Then, he'll give you a little foot massage before work.

And if it's the winter, he will already have warmed up your car for you.

Femdom tasks don't necessarily have to be anything erotic. Sometimes, making him do something useful for you (like this) is much better anyways!

So give him some household chores and send him off to work while you relax.

7. Slave shaving

Okay this slave task is more about personal hygiene, but you can make it fun too!

Shaving is important when it comes to wearing a chastity cage. After all, you don't want long pubic hair cutting caught everywhere and getting inside the cage!

That can make for an uncomfortable expereince.

So what should you do?

Well, you should unlock your slave every week to shave his pubic hair.

This needs to be supervised so he doesn't try to jerk off when you're not looking.

Another thing you may want to do is shave other parts of his body too!

For example, you can order him to shave his legs or his armpits.

This is perfect for sissy training if you want to make him completely hairless! Or you can go the more cruel route and make him get a wax haha!

Sounds fun, right?

8. Do pushups

Out of all the femdom slave tasks, this one is probably the most physical!

What do I mean?

Well, this one actually involves physical labor!

Get your slave husband into shape! Make him do a certain amount of pushups every single day!

Start off easy with something like 50, but increase it after every week when he gets stronger.

You can turn this into a fun game too.

For example, you can put your feet on his back and use him as a footrest while he is doing pushups.

Or you can make it even harder for him by sitting on his back!

Another thing you can do is tease his locked up dick while he is trying to do the pushups. Talk about a crazy tease, right?

Also, make him count the pushups too. But instead of saying numbers, make him say something like "Thank You Mistress!" after every single pushup.

9. Errand boy with a twist

Turn your husband/boyfriend into a little errand boy for you.

And while you're at it, make things a little fun. Well, how do you do that?

Simple! Make him wear a butt plug while running errands for you.

Imagine him going to the grocery store to pick up milk or fill up the car with gas while he's got a big black butt plug shoved up his ass!

Make him take pictures of it too randomly so you make sure he didn't just take it out after he left the house.

Also, make sure he is locked in chastity too.

And give him a certain amount of time to complete the errands too. Say 20 minutes to pick up milk at the store and another 20 minutes to pick up your dry cleaning.

10. The French maid outfit

Another fun thing to do is make your slave do chores around the house in a french maid outfit.

I'm talking about the whole thing..the whole costume with heels as well.

Imagine him mopping the floors, doing the dishes, or cleaning the toilet while that outfit!

You should also get a bell so you can ring it to order him around - like to fetch you a glass of wine from the couch.

As your slave, your husband/boyfriend should be doing all of the chores around the house, right?

So you might as well have some fun with it!

If you want to tease him a bit, take a few pictures or videos of him in the outfit completing his chores.

Femdom slave tasks for your FLR - final thoughts

Overall, there are a ton of different slave tasks you can give your husband.

These are a great way to dominate him in your female led relationship.

Hopefully these ideas help make your sex life a little more kinky and naughty.

So, which one did you like the most? And which one do you want to try the most?

Let me know!

2 comments

  • Thank you for your ideas . So presently I make my husband wear panties and bras in public while having him locked in chastity and his butt plugged . I also restrain and gag him to a private room at night while teasing him on and off with no organism .

    Jenn
  • My husband doesnt know that I’ve told my girlfriend about him. She comes over and loves to apply her lipstick because he is mesmorized by lipstick. She has a playful time asking him if he wants some but then he blushes and walks away. Someday I have to tell him that she knows he wears it when it’s just the two of us.

    Roseanne

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