Small Penis Humiliation: Exploring The SPH Fetish With Your Partner

Incorporating small penis humiliation (SPH) into your sex life is a great idea.

If you already have a female led relationship, it is an amazing way to engage in dirty talk, cuckolding, and chastity. Plus, it's really fun to use as foreplay too.

After all, if a man is submissive, being erotically humiliated is a big turn on!

So if you're curious about SPH, this blog post will explain the basics and how to use it to improve your sex life.

This blog post will discuss:

  • What small penis humiliation (SPH) is
  • Why the SPH fetish appeals to men (and women)
  • How SPH is closely associated with cuckolding, sissification/feminization, and chastity
  • Ways to engage in SPH in your FLR and how to use it as foreplay
  • Ideas for SPH in your sex life

What is Small Penis Humiliation?

Small penis humiliation (or SPH) is a type of erotic humiliation where a man gets off at a woman (or man) making fun of the size of his penis.

It's all about making him feel that his "cock" is inadequate.

In general, submissive men love to be erotically humiliated by their partners. As a result, being told that their manhood will never satisfy a woman (let alone make her cum), is like music to their ears.

SPH usually includes:

  • Being told your penis is too small to please
  • Being told that your penis is useless
  • Used as an excuse for being locked in chastity
  • Or is involved in cuckolding in some way

For some men, having a small penis may be an insecurity. But at the same time, these men actually love their partner to sexually "attack" their insecurities with degradation.

As weird as it sounds, they REALLY get off on it!

SPH allows men to take sexual gratification through vulnerability.

In addition, SPH is a great way some couples engage in power exchange.

Too often, men are judge on having a massive penis to make women cum all night long.

So by flipping the switch and having the woman take charge - it's something some people enjoy.

In addition to that, some women REALLY get off on the erotic humiliation of it. The degradation of men and just "being mean and bitchy" to someone is a turn on.

How Does SPH Relate To Cuckolding?

Small penis humiliation is often associated with cuckolding because a cuckold will usually (but not always) have a small penis.

Part of the allure of cuckolding is having another man please your wife in ways that you cannot.

And erotic SPH can be a big part of that experience!

For example, it can be used as foreplay when the hotwife says things like:

  • "I need a big dick like Jamal's to please me."
  • "You're not even half his size. Don't believe me? Let me show you tonight then..."
  • "A little beta dick like that could never make a woman like me cum!"
  • "Once I fucked him, I knew I was never coming back to your tiny clitty."

Humiliation & Feminization

In addition to cuckolding, small penis humiliation can also be used in conjunction with feminization and the sissy fetish.

As I have written about in several other blog posts, some men like the idea of being "forced" into becoming a woman.

So having a little penis (or a little "clitty") can be an extension of that humiliation.

It's the idea that your penis is so small, it might as well be a little clit.

If you want to experiment around with SPH and feminization, you can do things like:

  • Locking your partner in a tiny pink chastity cage (or even a tiny pussy shaped chastity cage)
  • Only refer to his manhood as a "clit" or "clitty"
  • Make him wear panties instead of boxers/briefs
Small Penis Humiliation: Exploring The SPH Fetish With Your Partner

SPH & Chastity In Your Wife Led Marriage

SPH and chastity often go hand and hand. In fact, chastity can definitely add to the erotic humiliation of penis humiliation.

For example, lot of men want to be locked in chastity so their tiny penises don't bother women.

As I've always said, if you're too small to please, you need to be locked up!

But aside from that, there's also the possibility of shrinking in chastity. But of course, shrinking in a chastity cage is often temporarily (unless worn for long periods of time).

All in all, some men (okay...a lot of men) really get off about having a small penis and having it locked in chastity by a powerful woman and teased about it.

After all, there's something highly erotic about denial.

Dirty Talk Ideas

Overall, SPH is a great way to engage in foreplay with your partner - especially throughout the work day.

In fact, I would say it's a surefire way to get him all horny, blue balled, and leaking in his chastity cage while at work...

Here are some ideas to incorporate SPH into your foreplay to have a more vibrant sex life:

  • Compare him to other men you want to fuck
  • Compare him to your past boyfriends (i.e. David was SO much bigger than you)
  • Send him some photos of dicks you know he's way inferior to (like BBC)
  • Sext regularly while he's at work to get him all riled up at his desk
  • Tell him how his penis could never please you

Here are some general dirty talk scripts that you can use as well:

  • "Is it in?"
  • "You'll never please me with a penis so small like that"
  • "I honestly can't feel when you're inside me"
  • "I don't think you ever went through puberty"
  • "You should really wear women's underwear because that thing might as well be a clit"
  • "This is why I need to cuckold you"

Do You Have To Have A Small Penis For SPH?

One common misconception is that you have to have a small penis to be into small penis humiliation (after all, it IS in the name haha).

And while that is the case the majority of the time, it's certainly not a requirement...

In fact, many men with average (or even above average) penis sizes are into SPH.

You see, it's the actual humiliation aspect; being told you're not "good enough" that really gets men off when it comes to SPH.

So don't think you have to be small just to enjoy it!

Final Thoughts On SPH

Overall, SPH is a very interesting fetish to say the least. But I think it's fun to experiment around with this kink in your relationship.

It's great to spice things up and bring some erotic humiliation into the bedroom.

So what do you guys think about SPH? Is it something you enjoy or something you don't quite understand?

Let me know in the comments!

8 comments

  • I have a tiny penis it was 6 1/2 inches hard but now it’s 4 inches now but can be even smaller like 1 inch I do lock it up and where the tiniest panties as possible I actually love having a tiny dick I even deny myself orgasms which I find easy just wish I can find a woman that would treat me like this 24/7

    Stephen Crosby
  • I have always had a small penis, just over 3 inches erect. At first my wife didn’t care how small I was, but she never had an orgasm from sex with me. But masturbating after I came in her got old for her and her frustration was very evident. One evening after we had sex (if you could call it sex), she made an off-hand comment that she just wanted to feel something big inside her. I knew dildos weren’t what she was talking about, so I told her why not giving it a try. She asked if I was serious and I told her I was. After putting out an ad and sorting through answers we finally vetted a guy. The first time we met him and he got naked, it was obvious that he was over twice my size and way thicker. Then she got an idea. She told me to get naked and lie on my back on the bed. She straddled me and perked me to my 3 plus inches. She placed my penis against her belly. She marked my length on her belly with a sharpie. Then she did the same with the new guy. The mark was over 4 inches above mine. Talk about SPH. Then she told me to watch. She started to lower herself on him. She obviously enjoyed his thickness. When she got to point where he was in her to my mark, she stopped. She told me to look and see how much of him was still left outside of her. It was a lot. Then she said now watch this and lowered herself all the way down to his balls. She looked at me with the most intense sex face I’d ever seen on her and said he’s all the way in up to his mark then released one of the strongest orgasms she ever had. She just sat on him rocking back and forth enjoying the fullness.
    He ended up fucking her for over 2 hours during which she had continuous orgasms. Needless to say, she still sees him and doesn’t let me forget that I am no match for him. The SPH is an every day thing now. They both comment on my smallness. Finally she caged me and I’ve remained caged since. I actually enjoy the humiliation.

    Mark
  • For a guy with a small dick, you sure write well! You say that you are into small dick humiliation, so I couldn’t resist making a snide comment. Feel free to reciprocate!

    Everett

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