Pet Names For Subs: Nicknames To Call Your "Slave"
When you're in a FLR, calling your partner dear, honey, or babe just doesn't sound right! I mean, shouldn't you have a pet name for your subs?
After all, the FLR is about power exchange and dominance!
...but what should you call him?
Bitch? Slave? Idiot?
Well, having a pet name is about erotic humiliation, power exchange, and intimacy. And that's exactly what we're going to discuss today.
This blog post will cover:
- Great pet names to rename your partner
- The purpose of pet names for subs in your relationship
- How to come up with a good new submissive nickname for your partner
- How to use his new submissive name to tease him...
Alright, first get started with a list of good pet names for your partner.
Best Pet Names For Subs
Now, picking the "best" pet name for your sub is kind of like an art. I'll discuss that a little later.
But for now, I wanted to list out some great ideas for you to potentially pick from:
"little + his name"
For example: Little Eric. If small penis humiliation (SPH) is your thing, this is a great way to emasculate your partner in an erotic way!
Sissy is a perfect way to feminize your partner. It makes him seem more feminine, especially if you have him locked in a pink cage!
Now, you can also give him a completely different name. For example, you can call him "Sissy Jessica" or "Sissy Hannah".
Slut is another great pet nickname if you want to feminize your sissy slave!
Beta is always a good nickname to fallback on because it will forever remind him that he second when it comes to pleasing you in the bedroom.
Loser is also another great nickname to fallback on. It's direct and to the point.
Lot of people think "slave" is one of those very generic submissive names, but I don't agree with that. In fact, I quite like it!
It's very direct, explains his place in the relationship, and really helps drive across the power dynamic in your femdom scene.
Cuck, Cucky, or Cuckold
If you are into cuckolding, calling your partner cuck, cucky, or cuckold can be a great way to tease him (and talk dirty to him).
In fact, I would say my favorite out of the three would be 'cucky'. There's just something playful and witty about it.
What Is The Purpose Of Pet Names For Subs?
There are several purposes for creating a pet name for your partner.
As I mentioned earlier, one reason to humiliate him.
Erotic humiliation can be a big part of the domme/sub relationship so calling him "slave" or "cucky" can really help drive that point across.
After all, locking your husband/boyfriend in chastity isn't the only way to humiliate him :)
Plus, some couples also find that calling each other a different name helps 'get into character' when doing femdom scenes.
Gets You Into The Right Mood
The second purpose using a submissive nickname with your partner is really get into the right mood (think of it like dirty talk).
Calling your partner a pet name like cucky or sissy really puts you into the right mood when it comes to the domme/sub dynamic.
It's like wearing a nice suit to work. Even though it may not be required, dressing the part helps get your mind into the right mindset.
It's the same idea here! Instead of calling your partner by his name, call him by his 'slave name' instead.
Reinforces The Power Dynamic
One of the best things about having a pet name for your slave husband/boyfriend is that it reinforces the power dynamic.
The dom/sub relationship is all about the exchange of power.
One person is always above the other person (at least in the bedroom).
So having pet names for each other is important.
For example, you can call him "bitch" or "slave" and he must respond and call you "Mistress" or "Queen".
This helps physiologically ingrain the power dynamic between the two of you while playing.
Creating The Best Submissive Name For Him
So, you want to rename your partner when it comes to dominating him in the bedroom? Well, I have two pieces of advice.
The first piece of advice is to pick one and stick with that one. After all, you want a pet name to have some meaning behind it.
If you changed his pet name every time you play, then it really loses its special meaning.
Second, his pet name should be specific to him or you in some way.
Find some way to create a meaningful connection with his submissive name.
For example, if you want him to be your cuckold, cuck or cucky can be a great nickname for him.
Or if you want him to be a sissy, you can give him a girl's name (like Sissy Jolene).
Do this and you’ll have a great emotional reaction every time you use it!
Should You Have A Naming Ceremony?
Once you have picked out a great pet name for your husband/boyfriend, you can make it official with a naming ceremony!
Now, it doesn’t have to be anything fancy.
It can be just a simple as saying “your name is no longer John, but Cucky.”
And another fun idea is to get dog tags made with his new submissive name.
That way you can present it to him and place it on his neck when you finally decide to rename him.
Of course you’ll still call him by his real name in public around family and friends, but in the privacy of your sex life, he will definitely have a new name!
Pet Names For Your Submissive - Final Thoughts
Overall, creating a new submissive name for your sub is a great way to enhance your relationship.
It's fun, very intimate, and pays dividends way into the future.
Giving your partner an entirely new name is definitely a power trip. So don't knock it until you try it!
Hopefully this list gave you some good ideas for pet names for your sub(s).
So, do you think I missed a cool pet name that should be on this list?
Let me know in the comments!