15 Fun Femdom Ideas For Your Wife Led Marriage
Need some fun Femdom ideas to spice things up this weekend?
One of my favorite things about a wife led marriage is the diversify of naughty things you can do for fun.
From tease and denial to ruined orgasm to impact play...the sky is the limit!
There are many fetishes to experiment around with so that your sex life is never boring.
This blog post will cover:
- Femdom chastity ideas to totally dominate and control your cuckold husband/boyfriend
- How to punish and tease your partner like a cruel femdom wife
- Ideas to erotically humiliate your partner
So if whether you are new to female led relationships (FLRs) or super experienced, I'm sure you'll get a thrill out of trying the ideas on this list!
1. Take photos in public places
One thing you can do is make your slave take photos of his locked up dick in public places such as the park or the bathroom of a restaurant.
Think of it like a "chastity spot check". When he gets the text message from you, he has 2 minutes to send a picture or else he will get punished!
Not only is this super humiliating, but it's also very fun to do because it is so spontaneous.
It could happen at anytime...while he's at work or while he's with his friends!
Plus, making him do this is a constant reminder that you own his manhood, which means he'll be even more frustrated in the cage!
2. Pick out porn for him to watch
This is one of my favorite femdom chastity ideas because it's just to cruel and there's nothing he can do about it.
Pick out some porn for your partner to watch. But be sure he is locked safely away in chastity so he can't truly "enjoy" it.
Make sure it's something that will really humiliate him like cuckold porn or maybe blowjob videos so he starts to learn how to suck cock!
Anyways, pick out the videos and make him watch them all while he is locked in chastity.
You can tie him to a chair in front of the TV and then make him watch it all!
Just make sure he doesn't jerk at all otherwise you will have to punish him.
After a few hours of this, he will be leaking in the cage!
P.S. if you really want to torture him, you can lock him in a spiked cage like the Steel Terror so the spikes REALLY dig in while he's watching porn!
3. Ass fucking from the store
Another fun femdom idea is to make your slave pick out something from the grocery store (such as a vegetable) to fuck his ass with.
It could be something like a carrot or a snickers bar or a lollipop.
Watch as he becomes so nervous and indecisive at the store when he knows he's going to pick up something that will fuck his ass!
If you want to be cruel, you can tell him what to buy...
Anyways, he'll be nervously sweating as he's driving home to deliver his new "anal plug" to you. Talk about fun, right? :)
4. Stroking at work
I find that it is always fun to tease your slave while he is at work.
Imagine him being totally sexually frustrated at work unable to concentrate on anything else!
Order him to go into the bathroom and stroke his locked up dick to you.
This one is really funny because after he goes back to his desk, he'll be so frustrated that he'll be thinking about you all day long!
It is also a great idea to leave naughty voice messages on what you want him to do for you!
After a few stroking sessions at work, he will be totally frustrated with blue balls.
And when he comes home, you can tease and deny him even more...
5. Anal play at work
Pack a special little item in your cuck's lunch today!
Put a little vibrator or a butt plug in his lunch bag and have him fuck his own ass with it at work!
That's right...he will have to try to sneak away on his lunch break while no one is around.
Oh and because this is so fun and humiliating you will need video evidence of this too!
If he doesn't send the video evidence, he will be punished for disobeying orders :)
If you don't have a butt plug around, you can also make him do it with a banana. Just make sure that the banana isn't too ripe or it will be too soft.
6. Panty shopping together
Go to the lingerie store and pick out panties together so you can turn him into a good sissy.
You and your sissy cuck will wear the same color/style.
And be sure to take lots of pictures in the dressing room so you can use them to keep him in check if he needs to be reminded of his place!
If you want to make things more humiliating, tell the store employees that he's looking for some pink panties and if they have any suggestions!
P.S. if you're looking for a guide to turn your sub into the perfect sissy cuck, check out this blog post!
7. Shoe cleaning duty
While you are out with a real man, your cuckold slave should be busy slaving for you!
If you didn't bring him as a chauffeur on your date, have your cuck stay home and clean your heels!
That's right, while you are enjoying the company of a real man, your cuck will be cleaning the literal dirt from your heels.
And when you come home inspect his handiwork and see if he did a good job.
If he didn't he will be punished severely!
8. Tinder fun
I have long said that finding bulls for your wife is a core cuckold duty.
During his free time have your cuck swipe guys for you on Tinder. If you don't already have a profile, make one together; it's fun!
At the end of the night, look over your matches and start texting with them while you sit on your cuck's face and make him eat your ass.
If you see a serious lack of quality men, punish your cuck for matching with the wrong people.
9. Total orgasm control
A cuck's dick and orgasms should be controlled by his owner. As a result, he shouldn't jerk it without your command!
Allow your cuck to have some fun today...but with a twist!
He will only be allowed to stroke his little dicklet under your direct supervision. And be sure to humiliate him about how small his penis is too!
And when he inevitably begs to cum deny him and lock him back up in the cage.
After all, orgasms must be earned over long hours of servitude :)
10. House chores
Create a chore list for your slave.
Yes, I'm talking about an actual print out with a chores that he is supposed to do.
It can be anything you want it to be from cleaning the floors to taking out the garbage to washing the windows.
Grade him on each chore from a scale of 1 to 10 (with 10 being outstanding work).
If you consistently see him slacking, then punish him so he doesn't fuck up again!
You can also make him wear a French maid outfit while doing his chores :)
11. Kick his balls!
One thing that you can experiment around with your FLR is pain - specifically ballbusting and CBT.
Has your slave been begging to be unlocked from the cage?
Well, you're going to finally grant his wish today, but there's just one thing you forgot to mention...
You are only going to unlock him to kick his balls in and slap them!
If he's not used to such pain go soft at first and remember to always have a safe word.
12. Ruin his orgasm
A real orgasm should be a rare thing for a slave.
In fact, most of his orgasms should be RUINED orgasms!
There are a ton of ways to ruin his orgasm, but one of my favorite is the good old handjob.
This is because it's much easier to ruin his orgasm this way.
Stroke your slave past the point of no return and then remove all stimulation when he starts cumming.
His dick should start twitching and the cum should dribble out.
And after he's done spilling his filth, make sure to rub the sensitive tip of his cock to torture him!
13. Milk him in chastity
Just because your slave is in chastity doesn't mean he can't cum.
I want you to milk him in his chastity cage by stimulating his prostate.
Not only is it healthy to do so, but it's also very humiliating (especially if he's not very experienced with anal).
A prostate orgasm in his chastity cage is VERY frustrating.
It's definitely not as pleasurable as a regular orgasm and he may be even more horny after this as well!
P.S. for more ideas on how to milk your slave in his chastity cage, check out this blog post!
14. Ride his face
Lock your slave in chastity and begin riding his face. Make him lick you to several orgasms while you tease his cage.
Tell him how pathetic he is locked in there.
Grab his balls and squeeze them to make him eat you out even faster.
You are in control. You own him.
Use your slave as your toy to cum!
15. Dry hump him
Turn things up by really teasing your slave this week!
I want you to dry hump him like no tomorrow. Now this works best if he is locked in chastity, but it is not a requirement.
Dry hump him on the bed or couch and talk dirty into his ear while sucking on his earlobe.
Let him know that he won't be enjoying your pussy tonight and this is the most stimulation he's going to get from you.
And if you want to take the tease to another level, be sure to hump his chest (or stomach) with your bare pussy so he can feel how wet you are!
Fun Femdom Ideas For Your FLR - Final Thoughts
Overall, there are a ton of ways to have fun in your FLR. After all, total power exchange is such a thrilling and erotic experience.
Hopefully this list gives you plenty of femdom ideas to try with your partner.
So...which is your favorite? Let me know in the comments!