10 Kinky Locktober Chastity Ideas [Updated For 2024]

Edit: this blog post has been updated for Locktober 2024!

Locktober is almost here and it is one of my favorite times of the year!

So...what is Locktober? 

Well, it's a national "Femdom Holiday" in which men lock their dicks for the entirety of October.

That's right...

31 days of NONSTOP chastity!

No stroking. No cumming. Only denial and frustration.

Locktober is a great way to experience long-term chastity and really embrace your submissive side.

Plus, it's a great way to have fun with your partner and really experience the erotic nature of total power exchange.

So, here are 10 kinky Locktober chastity ideas that you should definitely try this year!

These fun challenges, activities, and games will surely push you past the limit physically and mentally :)

P.S. for more fun ideas, check out my No Nut November guide!

1. Edge 5 times in the cage

Your first Locktober challenge will be to edge 5 times in your chastity cage.

YEP 5 times!

I want those balls blue and hurting by the time you are done.

Ideally you will do this challenge within the first week of Locktober to get REALLY horny and desperate right off the bat.

If you have a keyholder, you can ask her to edge you as well.

But don't you dare cum. You know that you must make the full 31 days of October like a good boy.

To make things more fun, you have to edge 5 different ways.

For example, it can be something like this:

1. Chastity handjob
2. Anal stimulation
3. Humping a pillow
4. Vibrator against the cage
5. Humping your keyholder's ass

2. Lick your keyholder to 3 orgasms

Your second Locktober challenge will be to please your keyholder.

After all, Locktober isn't just about being submissive. It's also about serving your partner better in outside of the bedroom.

So, how should you please your partner?

Well, I'm so glad you asked!

You are to lick your keyholder to 3 amazing orgasms while you are denied of course.

And then when you have blue balls you are to sleep with her wet panties over your face. Talk about pure torture, right?

This challenge will definitely have you sleepless at night as you strain against the cage...

3. Feel the vibrations against the cage

For this idea you will be teasing yourself while in the cage!

Ideally this would be 2 weeks into Locktober. This way your balls are super big and sensitive in the cage!

So here's what you are going to do....

Take a nice and strong vibrator and jam it against your cage.

I would definitely recommend completing this challenge with a steel cage as they tend to have stronger stimulation when used with a vibrator.

With a steel cage, the vibrations should be super strong and you'll feel them across your lower region.

A couple minutes of stimulation like this and you'll be ready to burst out of that cage. In fact, with enough stimulation, you may even cum in the cage!

But don't.

You have to make it the FULL 31 days.

4. 24 hours with vibrating butt plug

Your next Locktober challenge will be to wear a vibrating butt plug for 24 hours straight!

Yep that's right.

With something jammed up your ass all day, you'll be even more frustrated especially with the prostate stimulation!

Ideally you will be using a butt plug that vibrates remotely so your partner can control it.

Something like the Cuck Bliss is PERFECT for this.

Imagine just sitting around the house washing the dishes and she turns it on just to toy with you!

Or maybe you're sitting around watching Netflix together and she decides to give you a little nudge with the remote control haha!

Bet that'll get you super hard and frustrated in the cage :)

5. One hour steamy makeout session

This Locktober chastity idea is all about foreplay and tease & denial.

For this challenge, you will make out with your partner for 1 hour straight!

Yes that's right. I want you to pretend you're in high school again trying to skirt around your parents to make out with your crush.

Sounds simple enough, right? But there's a twist...

While you are kissing, your partner should grab and rub your balls.

Trust me, even after 30 minutes of this you'll be leaking and begging for a release from the cage.

If you are really into kissing (like I am) then this idea will really get you leaking a river!

6. Chastity blowjob

Okay I was debating on putting this idea on the list or not but since it's so cruel and fun, I have no choice...

For all the chastity subs out there: Sorry (haha just kidding)!

Anyways, for this Locktober challenge, you will give your slave a "chastity blowjob"

Basically suck on his cage as if you were giving him a regular blowjob.

Take extra time to really tease and suck on his balls too.

This idea is best with a cage that has large spacings between the bars so he can barely feel your wet tongue on the cage.

In fact, I have a feeling he won't be able to sleep after trying this Locktober challenge!

7. Pegging but no cumming

This is a great Locktober chastity idea if you want to give your slave a little bit of "stimulation"

And it's not exactly going to be the stimulation that he is will be expecting.

What are you going to do?

Well, you are going to peg him and make him call you daddy!

That's right, with a big enough strapon, you'll be able to give him prostate stimulation with every thrust.

But be careful, you don't want to make him cum in the cage.

You just want to give him enough stimulation to "get hard" in the cage and that's it! No cumming this month at all!

8. List out 10 ways he'd like to cum

This fun Locktober chastity idea will focus on the mental side of chastity.

Specifically, I want you to mind fuck your slave by having him list out 10 ways he'd love to cum. Actually have him physically write down the list of 10 ways on a piece of paper.

Why is this such a fun idea?

Well, you will get him fantasizing and getting hard in his cage knowing he won't be able to do anything about it!

It's pure torture. It's like giving a prisoner hope and then taking it away haha

I would recommend giving out this chastity challenge around week 2 so he starts day dreaming about all the ways he wants to cum.

9. Fit into a micro cage

Okay your next goal for Locktober is to fit into a micro cage.

What is a micro cage?

Well, it's a super small chastity cage that is designed to be 100% secure and make you super horny.

These cages are typically 35 mm or shorter and they are SO much fun.

Trust me, getting squished inside a micro cage and then leaking a river is so much fun. It makes the chastity experience so much more intense and amazing.

So your goal for Locktober is to try a micro cage for at least 2 or 3 days and experience the difference.

Once you go micro, it's hard to go back!

10. Cum in chastity

Okay, it's day 31.

You have made it the entire month of October in chastity without cumming!

Now your keyholder will give you a special reward.

You will get to cum!

But the catch here is she won't be removing the cage. In fact, after 31 days of denial, teasing, and frustration, you should be ready to burst at a moment's notice.

Your keyholder will tease you and make you cum in the cage like a proper chastity slave to celebrate the end of Locktober.

How's that for fun?

P.S. check out this blog post for some naughty ideas to cum in chastity...

Locktober Chastity Ideas - Final Thoughts

Overall, Locktober is one of the best times of the year to be a submissive.

Experiencing 31 days of power exchange with your partner is something that should be on your bucket-list.

Hopefully these Locktober chastity ideas will help your female led relationship (FLR) through this amazing month!

So...which idea do you want to try the most?

Let me know in the comments!

P.S. if you want MORE fun chastity games like this to try for Locktober, be sure to check out our Chastity Games Book!