Cuckold Checklist: 8 Signs You May Like Cuckolding
Are cuckolds born or made?
It's an interesting question (kind of like the chicken or the egg)...but I would say cuckolds are "made" due to the circumstances in your life.
More often than not, people have told me they were cheated on by a significant other and that really started their cuckolding fetish.
While I don't condone cheating or encourage it, it is interesting to see how many cuckold origin stories result from this.
Anyways, I'm getting a little off topic here...
When some people stumble into the world of chastity and female domination, cuckolding/hotwifing is naturally an area they gravitate towards.
The allure of "cheating" combined with the humiliation and denial aspects can definitely be extremely arousing.
So...how do you know if you are a cuckold? Or how do you know if your partner is a cuckold?
Some people are confused about it, but this blog will help you answer some questions about yourself.
The more items that apply to you from this cuckold checklist, the greater the chance you were destined for the cuckold lifestyle...
1. You Love Hearing About Your Partner's Ex's...
Are you abnormally interested in your wife/girlfriend's exes?
Sure, it's normal to talk about exes with your partner. But do you really want to know the nitty gritty details - particularly about their sex life?
Does it turn you on to hear about her exes, especially about their sexual experiences? Or maybe you even asked to see their sex tapes?
This is one of the surest signs that you may be a beta cuckold!
If hearing about your wife's adventurous college experiences is a turn-on, then you might be a cuckold.
2. You Constantly Ask Permission For Stuff
While not all cuckolds are submissive, it is a VERY strong indicator when combined with other factors on this list.
Do you need to constantly ask permission for things?
For example, do you ask the waiter at the restaurant if you can order something or if you ask your dentist if you are allowed to schedule an appointment.
Most people would simply say, "I'll have the cheeseburger".
But if you say, "Can I have a cheeseburger?" the whole frame of mind changes. Instead of telling the waiter what you want, you are asking a stranger permission to order food.
Do you overly seek the approval of other people (especially in the work place and with acquaintances).
For example, if someone at work asks you to do some of their work, do you do it without question?
Or maybe if an acquaintance asks you to do something like pick up their dry cleaning...do you do it?
Also, if you are an overly "by the book" person, you may like or find that you like cuckolding because it is a fetish and lifestyle based on power exchange.
3. You Love To Watch (Or Hear) Other People Have Sex
Have you ever heard someone have sex? And no, I'm not talking about watching porn. I mean in real life!
Maybe it was your roommate and his girlfriend...
Maybe it was in university and you heard something in another dorm room while passing by.
Or maybe you were staying in a hotel and could hear the people next door through the paper thin walls...
Well, if you did and you enjoyed it, you may be a cuckold.
While voyeurism isn't the same thing as cuckolding, watching your wife/girlfriend have intimate relations with another man is a sure sign!
4. You Have A Micro Penis
While a tiny penis is not necessarily an indication that someone is a cuckold, there is definitely a correlation in my experience!
The reason being: it's super hard to please a woman with a small dick...or a micro penis. In fact, that thing should be in a micro cage!
Sure, you can use your tongue and everything, but that little "thing" won't be making any woman orgasm.
So, if you have a micro, it would only be natural for your partner to seek out other men with big dicks.
Plus, having a small dick means you are easier to lock in chastity (and thus control).
According to Google, a "micro penis" is under 3.67 inches (9.32 cm). So are you over or under?
5. You Like Being Teased & Are Into Denial
Another telltale sign that you are a cuckold is if you are into denial, frustration, and/or teasing.
Do you like being told "NO" by women?
Do you like getting rejected?
Do you secretly wish a woman would control parts (or all) of your life?
Getting denied and being told "no" is something cuckolds will experience a lot of. As a result, this could be an early sign that you are destined for the cuckold life.
6. You Are Submissive And Not Just In Your Sex Life
Another sign that you may be a cuckold is if you are submissive in your personal life.
And by submissive, I mean a "pushover".
If someone cuts you in line, do you say anything? Or do you just be quiet?
If the restaurant screws up your order and gives you something else, do you speak up and tell them about it? Or do you remain silent and just eat whatever they gave you?
What do you say if a colleague at work doesn't return your pen?
If you stay silent in all of these situations, you may have a higher tendency to be a cuckold.
7. Feelings of Inadequacy When It Comes To Women
Do you have a feeling of inadequacy when it comes to women?
Maybe you're totally nervous about asking out that girl at the coffee shop.
Or maybe you think she's too pretty for you.
Or maybe you don't think you make enough money for her.
...or maybe deep down you know that micro penis of yours could never make her cum...
All of these can be a sign that you are a cuckold.
8. A Desire To Please Everyone
Finally, a desire to please everyone may be another sign that you are a cuckold.
Do you do extra little things to make your boss happy at work?
Were you a teacher's pet at school?
A desire to please everyone and be will liked can be a sign that you may be a cuckold.
After all, cuckolds exist to serve and please their hotwives and their lovers :)
Final Thoughts
If you are confused about whether or not you want to become a cuckold, this checklist should help you.
The cuckold lifestyle is fantastic and will create a much more powerful bond with your partner.
So readers, what other telltale signs of being a cuck do you think I missed from this list?
Let me know in the comments!
I am alpha at work and in every other area except when it comes to my wife she owns me love chastity and love flr and feminizing sissy play but at work all male as you would say
Enjoy Andy very much. I am an alpha in work life and have many people who ‘report to me’ but I do have many of the tendencies described above. I have a dominant girlfriend and I wear a cage. My cock is quite short (5 inches) but fat (seven inches diameter) which she likes. Of course, she likes long, fat ones even more. She is also bi and loves playing with girls. She is my key holder and I go long (ish) periods locked because we are not together all the time. She teases me by not mentioning the cage, not telling me that I can remove it and occasionally requires me to prove I am wearing it (photo with something written on my leg next to the cage). For example a message that says ‘picture with time and date – now – you have two minutes.’ I arrange ‘dates’ for her – with her ultimate approval be fore meeting of course. I stay and serve her guest(s), am caged and naked. I really enjoy serving my Mistress. I am a Cuck.
I have to disagree with this list. I am an alfa, well endowed and don’t ask for permission for anything. but my wife and I do role play and talk about Cuckholding, I am a submissive in the bedroom and like the teaseing and humiliation as well as feminizing, we haven’t done full cucking yet but may at some point.
While the cut off may be 3.67, at 3.75 inches I’m not gonna be satisfying any woman either! So if I’m ever lucky to find someone, I can’t complain if I get cucked