CFNM Chastity Ideas: 7 Hot Femdom Scenarios To Try
Ready to experiment around with CFNM in your female led relationship? Well, these CFNM chastity ideas are a must try!
I'm a big fan of CFNM in a FLR or cuckold relationship because it emphasizes the power exchange between the couples.
And it's just fun to boss around a naked man in his chastity cage like he's a little toy.
This blog post will cover:
- What CFNM is
- Super kinky CFNM scenarios you need to try
- ...and more!
Alright, let's get started with the most important question:
What is CFNM?
CFNM stands for clothed female, naked male.
In other words, it's a sexual scene where the men are naked and the females are clothed.
So...what's so attractive or fun about CFNM? Well, plays into the power control and erotic humiliation some people love.
By keeping the male/men naked (with just a chastity cage on), they are being objectified by women.
In addition, the women are powerful because they are denying the man an opportunity to see them naked.
It's a kink that some couples have and I'm definitely in that group!
So let's discuss some fun CFNM chastity scenarios to try in your FLR...
1. Have Him Serve You & The Ladies
One of my favorite CFNM ideas is to have your chastity slave serve you and your friends.
After all, you might as well share him with your girlfriends, right?
So, invite some girlfriends over for a girls night in. Have your cuck completely naked with nothing but his chastity cage on.
Then, he will wait on you hand and foot. He will great each woman on his knees as they come in and hand her a drink.
Then he will be busy preparing dinner and waiting on you the entire night.
I think this would be the perfect way to spend the night!
And for the summer, you can have him be your slave pool boy as you lounge around by the pool and tan.
He'll fetch drinks and bring snacks to you, all while serving in his cage!
2. Whip Him
Another fun way to exude power over your slave is to whip him!
I recommend getting a flogger as the pain level isn't too high and it's perfect for beginners to experience.
Strip your chastity slave naked and have him up against the wall. Then, order him to beg you to whip him.
Begin by going softly and make his back red from the slaps.
One of my favorite things to do is to take off a pair of wet panties (ideally creampie panties from a fun night with your bull) and then stuffing them in his mouth!
If you don't have that, a ball gag a towel will also be perfect.
Whipping your chastity slave is a great way to bring a little pain and pleasure to your sex life.
3. Bondage + Tease and Denial
The great thing about CFNM is you can basically do whatever you want to your chastity slave.
And this is even true when you have him tied down!
So it’s time to learn some bondage skills – specifically knot tying skills.
Strip your slave down naked and then tie him down to the bed.
If you are even more kinky, perhaps you can rent a local dungeon around town that already has a bondage table.
The point of this is to have him tied down, naked, and locked in chastity so he can’t do anything to resist the cruel tease you’re about to give him.
What you are going to do is edge him over and over again. Get him nice and hard in the cage and edge him a few times until he's begging for mercy.
It’s really hot when he’s naked and completely at your mercy. You know you own him at this point!
4. Make Him Watch Porn While You Tease Him
Another fun CFNM chastity idea is to make your slave watch porn while you tease him.
Strap him to a chair or tie him down to it so he can't do anything.
Then watch him some hot porn!
So...what kind of porn should you make him watch?
Well, some of my favorites would include:
- CFNM (of course)
- Chastity
- Femdom
- Sissy fucking
- Cuckolding/BBC
The idea is to tease his locked up cock with a vibrator while talking dirty to him knowing he won't be able to cum without your permission.
After you're done teasing him, leave him there all hot and bothered and leaking a naked mess in his cage!
5. Trample Him
Trampling a naked chastity slave such is so much fun!
There's nothing like seeing a naked man locked in chastity and completely at your mercy.
So put on some heels and get ready to trample his stomach and chest! If he can't handle heels, go barefoot.
As he groans up, you will be fully clothed and having the time of your life stepping on the "man" beneath you.
The power exchange of trampling a naked man is just so empowering. It's something every woman should be able to experience at least once in their lives.
If your slave can handle it, you can even use him as a trampoline!
6. Cock Sucking Training (Sissifcation)
Another fun CFNM chastity idea is to turn your slave husband/boyfriend into a sissy for you!
So get a strapon and order him to his knees ready to please with his mouth.
Imagine whispering dirty things into his ear as you tell him how you're going to fuck his throat. I bet he'd be super hard and leaking in the cage.
By the way, make sure he's wearing a sexy pink chastity cage like a proper sissy!
Meanwhile, you can wear something sexy like a leather catsuit while he's completely naked.
Or if you want to do something even more humiliating, you can have him suck off your bull!
7. Clean Your Feet
The last CFNM idea is to transform your slave husband/boyfriend into your footstool!
Use him as a footrest as you sit back and relax with a glass of wine after a long day at work.
Then, make him use his tongue and get to work cleaning and massaging your feet!
Have him massage one foot while sucking on your toes. Then, have him get his tongue in between each toe and clean that toejam!
Having a footslave completely at your mercy is so much fun. You’ll wonder how you went without it for so long!
CFNM Chastity Ideas For Your FLR - Final Thoughts
Overall, CFNM is a great fetish to explore in your wife led marriage.
Plus, it helps reinforce the power dynamic in the relationship.
Hopefully these ideas present some fun femdom scenarios for you to try on a kinky weekend!
So...which one did you like the most? And do you have any other kink ideas that I should add to this list?
Let me now in the comments :)
My FAVORITE experience for my wife, is:
When she or her boyfriend bring a friend to fuck me, while she’s enjoying her boyfriend’s man-cock. They demand – & I WANT to – do MY sissy-cuck duties while getting fucked & they are fucking.
She also LOVES to – of course I LOVE it, too because it makes me feel LUCKY to have her – have porn playing when we have the right visitors, & she has me sit in the middle of the floor on me knees, watching sissy & cuckold videos. The rule is that NOBODY – not even me – can touch my ‘pee-pee’ (I’m NOT ALLOWED to it anything other than my ‘pee-pee’ or ‘sissy-clit’), but I have to play with my tits (not ‘enhanced’, even though I often wish I could get bitter tits, maybe ‘B-cups’) & she lets anyone suck on mine to show that within a minute of someone sucking my tits, I cum. Then I have to lick it up from the paper plate she puts down between my legs.
I truly wish there was a community – a neighborhood, maybe – of couples that are in cuckold relationships, so we could experience more intense activities with others that love the lifestyle.
Mistress Cam and Mistress Celestia Dove thank you for the ideas!
Never touch your Hubby Slave’s cock directly, in the cage or out. I wear a pair of yellow kitchen gloves if I actually have to handle his wet-wear (rare; very rare). I think he finds that more frustrating than anything else. On tease occasions (even rarer), I wear a pair of thick, harsh-grip gardening gloves I keep for the purpose. He gets no sensation of my hand and I get proper isolation from his little nubbin. They are pretty rough too. I use those gardening gloves for prostate milking too, once or twice a year.
My Mistress has made me drive her various places either in chastity or naked. It pleases her so hat makes me happy while humiliating me.
I’d like to add this one…
Face Sitting
Once again, tie him down and sit on his face for your pleasure.
If he cums in his cage while you are grinding on his face, be sure and feed every last drop of his cum to him.
If you are really an adventurist, put a blindfold on him and invite your friends over. Everyone takes a turn sitting on his face. If he can tell whose pussy is whose, then his reward will be to jerk off into his hand and eat it as all look on.
Take a bunch of chastity keys and place them in a bowl. Have each of your friends take one key. Have all your new key holders try their key in his cage. Whoever unlocks the cage gets to have him fuck her and then she sits on his face and delivers his load to his mouth.