My Wife Wants To Peg Me! Now What?

"My wife wants to peg me...what should I say to her?"

If only I got a quarter every time I heard that in my DMs...

If your wife/girlfriend has brought up the pegging conversation, don't freak out.

It's good that she's sharing something sexy and kinky in the bedroom that she wants to do with you.

Pegging can be a highly erotic and intimate thing to experience with your partner. And let's be honest, it feels great (yes, seriously)!

So if you're wondering how to proceed after hearing those famous words from your wife/girlfriend, this blog post will discuss:

• Why pegging is great for your relationship (from a physical and psychological perspective)
• How pegging and chastity go hand in hand
• How pegging can relieve stress in your day to day life
• The negative stigma of having your wife peg you
• And the safety basics of pegging

Why Is Pegging Great For Your Relationship?

Why is pegging such an amazing thing to experience?

If you're a man, that's probably one question you have when it comes to pegging :)

Some men have this preconceived notion that pegging is "gay" and that only losers do it.

BUT it couldn't be farther from the truth!

If you've never had an orgasm from prostate stimulation, you are truly missing out...

It's truly a pleasurable sensation to cum from your anus being stimulation. Plus, if you are in a FLR, the power exchange aspect is great.

Giving up total control like this and being the one being fucked is a big stress reliver (believe it or not).

If you are a manager at work, you're probably used to giving out orders and being expected to lead...so becoming the one taking orders is a big stress reliver.

Pegging Gives You "Relief" From Chastity

The second reason why your wife *may* want to peg you is to give you some relief in chastity.

As I have written about in the past, if you are locked in chastity (especially long-term), anal stimulation is one of the best ways to cum in the cage.

And trust me...after a few weeks or *gasp* months of chastity, anal stimulation will start to sound pretty good when you haven't had any orgasms at all.

So with pegging, your keyholder doesn't have to let you out to give you that "release". And the best thing about this is that a chastity orgasm will keep you even more frustrated!

It's one of the "worst" and "best" ways to have a ruined orgasm.

In fact, the longer you have been locked in chastity, the higher the chance you'll beg her to peg you to cum!

Give Your Wife/Girlfriend Some Stress Relief

Pegging isn't just another way for men to get off. No, in fact, it can actually be great for your wife/girlfriend as well when it comes to stress relief.

Women are often the ones being fucked in the bedroom. So, getting the role reversed can be really great experience.

Imagine she comes home after a long day of work dealing with some idiot co-workers...

She needs to let off some steam. So she comes home, grabs the strapon, and orders you to present your ass and bend over the bed.

Then, she takes your "man pussy" as her own and make you squirt all over your chastity cage!

It's kind of like how people take boxing or kickboxing classes to get rid of some stress...

What Does Pegging Feel like? I'm A Little Skeptical About It...

So what does pegging feel like?

Well, it's kind of like taking a shit...but in reverse!

No, just kidding :)

It can feel a little awkward for both partners for the first time, but it's truly a pleasurable sensation.

For the first time, you'll probably feel a tight sensation, but it will blend into pleasure once your anus is stimulated - remember to use plenty of lube!

And with enough stimulation it may be possible to achieve orgasm. Trust me, it's definitely toe curling!

Beyond the physical aspect of pegging, there's also the emotional aspect of it.

People often describe it as an intimate experience with their partner and it can definitely bring you closer together emotionally.

Is There A Negative Stigma With Pegging?

As I mentioned before, there is somewhat of a mainstream negative stigma associated with pegging.

But if you've been following this blog for a while, nothing about this lifestyle is mainstream!

There's nothing inherently wrong about pegging.

In fact, the prostate stimulation can be healthy...

As all things in life, you shouldn't let someone else's opinion impact your pleasure. Getting pegged is perfectly normal, fun, and healthy.

So if your wife wants to peg you, let her! It's something great for the relationship.

Start Off Simple With Just Fingers

So...how should you start off pegging in your relationship?

Well, if you don't have any small anal toys, fingers are fine.

In fact, I would say that using fingers is a better way to get someone used to pegging because they are obviously a lot smaller and thinner than any anal toy.

But first things first: always clean the hole before and after you use it (same with your fingers).

Second, use plenty of lube so you don't irritate any dry skin and it allows for a more pleasurable experience.

But the idea is simple: use your fingers to stimulate your partner's g-spot.

You don't have to go very deep. And while you're doing this, you can use your other hand to stroke his penis or use your mouth as well.

The different types of sensations will definitely be something he has never experienced before!

Final Thoughts

Overall, I'm a big believer in trying pegging at least once in your life.

It can be a great emotional and physical experience for both partners...and who knows, you might end up loving it in the end!

So readers, what do you think about pegging?

Is it something that you would try in your relationship? Why or why not?

Let me know in the comments!