8 Femdom Punishment Ideas For Female Led Relationships

One of the best parts of setting up a female led relationship is toying around with naughty femdom punishment ideas.

Femdom punishments can range from mild to severe. Some of them can even be quite ‘pleasurable.’ The options are pretty much limitless.

Picking out the right punishment is an art. To get new wife led marriage couples started, let’s go over some really fun femdom punishment games.

1. Corporal punishment (spank his ass red!) 

Spanking is one of the most recognizable acts in the BDSM world for a good reason!

It’s effective, painful, and downright humiliating!

When your man has misbehaved, bend him over and spank him hard!

Show him who wears the pants in the relationship! Make his ass red so it hurts to sit!

There are a few popular ways to spank him.

Some women like to use their hands–although don’t do it too much or your hand might get swollen!

Some women like to use a tool of some kind.

Popular spanking tools include wooden spoons, paddles, or even rulers (metal, plastic, or wood will do).

An even more humiliating way to spank is to bend him over your knee.

He’ll be begging for chance to redeem himself after this 🙂

2. Whip him for being naughty!

A whip is a great way to dole out punishment to your man. It can be very painful so be prepared to gag him…unless you want to hear the sweet screams of his agony!

Always whip him on the upper back. Do not whip anywhere else to prevent serious injury!

Some whips may leave some red marks.

Don’t do a whipping session if you’re planning on hosting a pool party or going to the beach!

For men with a lower pain threshold, go ahead and use a flogger.

The pain is less severe, but the message is still the same: you fucked up!

Tip: Always have a safe word set up for impact play like this.

3. Add extra chastity days

Whenever he fucks up, don’t be afraid to add an extra day in chastity.

Did he forget to wash the dishes? One extra day in chastity!

…Did he take out the trash? If not…one extra day in chastity!

…Did he leave the toilet seat up (so annoying!)? Fucking add two days in chastity!

Chastity is the ultimate motivator. If he screws up, add another day. Hell, just do it to be cruel haha!

Trust me, he’ll hate it and love it at the same time. Such a paradox 🙂

He will be a well trained boyfriend/husband/slave by the time you’re done!

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4. Menial labor (chores)

In terms of ‘punishments’, this would probably be on the mild end.

If you run out of ideas or if there are extra chores around the house, make him do them.

It is always satisfying to order your man to do whatever chore you have no intention of doing.

Just sit back and relax while he slaves away!

If you’re feeling extra cruel, make him cook you a romantic dinner.

If he does a good job, reward him in some way.

8 Femdom Punishment Ideas For Female Led Relationships

5. Pussy eating

What’s the best way to punish someone?

Some say it’s through pain.

However, anyone can inflict pain as punishment. I find that sometimes teasing is the best form of punishment.

His mind is your greatest weapon!

If he fucks up or pisses you off, punish him by ordering him to pleasure you. Have him eat your pussy.

Oh yeah…and he’s not allowed to cum tonight (or for the rest of the week if you’re in a bad mood).

He’ll be eating your pussy like no tomorrow!

6. Ruined Orgasms 🙂

One of my favorite punishments is a ruined orgasm. There’s nothing funnier than to see his face when you completely ruin his ultimate climax.

There are a few ways do to this. One of the funniest is squeezing his shaft when he comes.

This will block the flow of his cum (don’t worry it won’t cause any damage) and he’ll get a very unsatisfying orgasm.

The more cruel method is just to stop all stimulation right before he reaches climax. His little dick will jerk around for a few seconds while the cum drips down like a leaky faucet.

He’ll get no pleasure from a ruined orgasm!

If he pisses you off, ruin his orgasm and tell him what he did to deserve it.

7. Tease and denial

As I mentioned before, an excruciating tease can be even more painful than corporal punishment.

Tie him down and tease his cock like no tomorrow.

Give him a blowjob, handjob, footjob, or whatever he fancies.

Just don’t bring him to the final climax! Stop short on the edge of release.

He’ll be sooooo frustrated.

Tip: it’s best to tie/cuff him down so he doesn’t try to escape 🙂

By the end the teasing torture session he’ll be begging for release…in fact, he might be willing to do ANYTHING for a quick orgasm!

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8. Clothespins torture

Clothespins are an amazing way to dole out punishment over a long period of time. And best of all, they’re really cheap.

The best places to put clothespins are on his nipples, cock, balls, and tongue. The longer you leave them on the more pain he’ll be in!

A favorite game of mine is to put a clothespin all over his body (primarily on the spots I mentioned above).

When he does something good (like finishing a chore or pleasing you), take a clothespin off.

The more you put on the more good deeds he’ll have to do!

Note: Some couples like to knock/slap clothespins off the body. I’m not a big fan of this.

The clothespins can cut/rip the skin off. We want to punish him, not cause him to bleed!

Final thoughts on femdom punishments

Femdom punishments are a great way to spice up your marriage.

It really does feel naughty to give out punishment (or receive punishment).

Sometimes, I find that it’s even fun to give out these punishments even if he did nothing wrong – just another way to establish dominance.

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